What do you make of it when a guy is supposedly attracted to your large body but does not want to be fat himself? I am talking to a seemingly great guy with whom there is supposedly mutual attraction and chemistry. This man has talked about wanting to, as they call it, "get ripped" and works out -- sometimes, at least, if I am correct. I don't know how often he does it or if he has even stuck to it at all. Anyway, if I recall correctly, he has talked about getting rid of belly fat (or something along those lines). At most, he has a little bit of pudge, but is pretty much thin. I ask myself if he can be genuinely attracted to me, a woman who is obviously fat at 300 pounds and has a very large, round gut when he does not want to have a body like mine.