Hi,
I believe that I am not a feeder but I happen to be quite attracted to overfed BBWs. When I say overfed, I mean those whose obesity is at least partly caused, maintained, or increased by eating habits. I hope that this the right forum to ask this kind of question.
1. How taboo/secret is the fact that you are overfed?
(select one)
[] Not at all, I could wear a t-shirt that states that I am overfed
[] A little bit. I would not go around with a sign and a megaphone to tell people but I would never try to hide or give false impressions about the fact that I am overfed
[] I am willing to admit it to friends and family but not to anybody else
[] I am willing to admit it to a select few
[] Only my spouse know about it
[] I don't admit it even to myself, how dare you suggest that I am overfed?
[] Other. What?
2. If being overfed is a secret/taboo for you, why is that?
(check all that apply)
[] I already told you that it's not a taboo for me.
[] I am tired of the hypocritical moralizing about starving children in other countries, from people who themselves can have a $50k car and million dollar home
[] I am religious and my religion forbids gluttony
[] My environment is religious and the religion forbids gluttony
[] I feel that our culture doesn't accept female gluttony
[] I don't mind at all but people become so embarrassed when I tell them that I am overfed
[] I just doesn't feel right to talk about such an intimate thing with other people
[] I feel ashamed because of my lack of self control when it comes to food
[] Other. What?
3. Have you ever done anything to hide the fact that you are overfed?
(check all that apply)
[] I have lied about my eating habits
[] I have not lied but said things that give a false impression of my eating habits (like a politician or lawyer would do)
[] I have incorrectly blamed my obesity on medical issues (metabolism, gland problems, PCOS, etc) that I don't have at all
[] I have some medical issues but I have exaggerated their impact in order to hide the fact that I am overfed
[] I have visited several stores/malls to hide from other shoppers and cashiers how much fattening foods I buy
[] I have pretended to buy food for several people although it was all for myself
[] I have hidden trash from overeating sessions in order to hide from my family, coworkers, friends, or acquaintances how much I eat
[] I have chosen to eat alone, in order to not let anybody see how much I eat
[] I have visited several restaurants in order to hide how much I eat
[] I have visited several restaurants of the same chain (McDonald's, BK, etc) in order to hide how much I eat
[] I have underestimated the amount exercise that I do in order to hide my eating habits, since I think it's nicer if people think I am sedentary rather than overfed
[] Other. What?
4. From whom have you hidden the fact that you are overfed?
(check all that apply)
[] Strangers
[] Acquaintances
[] Friends
[] Coworkers
[] Relatives
[] Neighbors
[] Spouse
[] people online (non-BBW communities)
[] people online (BBW communities)
[] you the people who read this web board
[] Somebody else, please tell who?
5. Is there a more polite way to say that somebody is overfed?
(select one)
[] foodee
[] over-nourished
[] very well fed
[] have dynamic eating habits
[] I don't want to think about it
[] No, overfed is the best word
[] Other, what?
6. Bonus question. What kind of foods do you believe have made a significant contribution to your obesity?
(select all that apply)
[] soda
[] sweet fruit juices
[] cream
[] milk
[] butter
[] chocolate
[] candy
[] potato chips
[] other (corn, etc) chips
[] cakes
[] other bakery products
[] ice cream
[] burgers
[] french fries
[] fried onion rings
[] other fast food
[] other deep fried foods (not french fries or onion rings)
[] desserts
[] cheese
[] American
[] English
[] French
[] German
[] Italian
[] Russian
[] Other European
[] Chinese
[] Japanese
[] Korean
[] Indian
[] Other Asian
[] Mexican
[] other from the Americas
[] Kebab
[] Turkish
[] Arabic
[] Persian
[] North African
[] other African
[] Other ethnic food, please tell which?
[] Other, what?
I believe that I am not a feeder but I happen to be quite attracted to overfed BBWs. When I say overfed, I mean those whose obesity is at least partly caused, maintained, or increased by eating habits. I hope that this the right forum to ask this kind of question.
1. How taboo/secret is the fact that you are overfed?
(select one)
[] Not at all, I could wear a t-shirt that states that I am overfed
[] A little bit. I would not go around with a sign and a megaphone to tell people but I would never try to hide or give false impressions about the fact that I am overfed
[] I am willing to admit it to friends and family but not to anybody else
[] I am willing to admit it to a select few
[] Only my spouse know about it
[] I don't admit it even to myself, how dare you suggest that I am overfed?
[] Other. What?
2. If being overfed is a secret/taboo for you, why is that?
(check all that apply)
[] I already told you that it's not a taboo for me.
[] I am tired of the hypocritical moralizing about starving children in other countries, from people who themselves can have a $50k car and million dollar home
[] I am religious and my religion forbids gluttony
[] My environment is religious and the religion forbids gluttony
[] I feel that our culture doesn't accept female gluttony
[] I don't mind at all but people become so embarrassed when I tell them that I am overfed
[] I just doesn't feel right to talk about such an intimate thing with other people
[] I feel ashamed because of my lack of self control when it comes to food
[] Other. What?
3. Have you ever done anything to hide the fact that you are overfed?
(check all that apply)
[] I have lied about my eating habits
[] I have not lied but said things that give a false impression of my eating habits (like a politician or lawyer would do)
[] I have incorrectly blamed my obesity on medical issues (metabolism, gland problems, PCOS, etc) that I don't have at all
[] I have some medical issues but I have exaggerated their impact in order to hide the fact that I am overfed
[] I have visited several stores/malls to hide from other shoppers and cashiers how much fattening foods I buy
[] I have pretended to buy food for several people although it was all for myself
[] I have hidden trash from overeating sessions in order to hide from my family, coworkers, friends, or acquaintances how much I eat
[] I have chosen to eat alone, in order to not let anybody see how much I eat
[] I have visited several restaurants in order to hide how much I eat
[] I have visited several restaurants of the same chain (McDonald's, BK, etc) in order to hide how much I eat
[] I have underestimated the amount exercise that I do in order to hide my eating habits, since I think it's nicer if people think I am sedentary rather than overfed
[] Other. What?
4. From whom have you hidden the fact that you are overfed?
(check all that apply)
[] Strangers
[] Acquaintances
[] Friends
[] Coworkers
[] Relatives
[] Neighbors
[] Spouse
[] people online (non-BBW communities)
[] people online (BBW communities)
[] you the people who read this web board
[] Somebody else, please tell who?
5. Is there a more polite way to say that somebody is overfed?
(select one)
[] foodee
[] over-nourished
[] very well fed
[] have dynamic eating habits
[] I don't want to think about it
[] No, overfed is the best word
[] Other, what?
6. Bonus question. What kind of foods do you believe have made a significant contribution to your obesity?
(select all that apply)
[] soda
[] sweet fruit juices
[] cream
[] milk
[] butter
[] chocolate
[] candy
[] potato chips
[] other (corn, etc) chips
[] cakes
[] other bakery products
[] ice cream
[] burgers
[] french fries
[] fried onion rings
[] other fast food
[] other deep fried foods (not french fries or onion rings)
[] desserts
[] cheese
[] American
[] English
[] French
[] German
[] Italian
[] Russian
[] Other European
[] Chinese
[] Japanese
[] Korean
[] Indian
[] Other Asian
[] Mexican
[] other from the Americas
[] Kebab
[] Turkish
[] Arabic
[] Persian
[] North African
[] other African
[] Other ethnic food, please tell which?
[] Other, what?
