What is making you SAD right now...

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  1. Jun 11, 2018 #5121

    Fantasist

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    I’m sad that I never seem to learn my lesson with certain people. It makes me feel foolish, as if I deserve it for ignoring what’s obvious. Sigh.
     
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  2. Jun 11, 2018 #5122

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    Some I made the mistake of trusting in the worst kind of persons.

    The best advice I can give to you is learn from you past experiences and get some time to know a person well! There is a lot of good and bad people out there!!!
     
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  3. Jun 11, 2018 #5123

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    Never blame yourself for the actions of a jerk. I just write them off and move on!
     
  4. Jun 11, 2018 #5124

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    Good advice! I would also suggest having someone who is in your corner be your second look. I can seem to pick out the jerks when a good friend finds one. When I scoop one up I just don’t realize.
     
  5. Jun 15, 2018 #5125

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    I'm sad today as i cant seem to ever get it right w/ weight loss. Instead of losing as I'd hoped, I gained a lb. I'm so sick of this battle. Tired of this
     
  6. Jun 15, 2018 #5126

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    I was looking up an old girlfriend the other day and I found out that she died two years ago! I was completely devastated. WTH?!?!
     
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  7. Jun 15, 2018 #5127

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    Circumstances
     
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  8. Jun 15, 2018 #5128

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    .... don't get me started on circumstances, they in 9 out of 10 cases are simply overwhelming.

    Hope they all work themselves out or disappear soon for you, Leo.
     
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  9. Jun 15, 2018 #5129

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    wow, so sorry that's a bummer.
     
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  10. Jun 15, 2018 #5130

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    Here's the really sad part: Back when we were dating, I was going through some PTSD issues but I didn't know it at the time. Whiel I am inherently not a bad person, I didn't treat her as well as I should have and always regretted it. Over the course of the last couple of years, I had been trying to contact people that I felt I owed apologies to but could not find a way to contact her. I finally find her and she has passed away. I'll never get to tell her how much I appreciated her and that I was so sorry for breaking up with her at the time.

    This has made me really concentrate on letting people in my life know how much they mean to me.
     
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  11. Jun 17, 2018 #5131

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    Yeah but at least you're a good enough person to recognize your failings and tried to make it right. This shows integrity. This is a great thing.
     
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  12. Jun 18, 2018 #5132

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    I'm sorry.
     
  13. Jun 18, 2018 #5133

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    I was thinking about a friend I really cared about who passed away about a year and a half ago. Every day, I wish he was still here.
     
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    Just heard that a former co-worker (worked with him for several years, and his son had done some work at our company too ) died of an accident that happened doing some sort of property maintenance. Just so shocking to have someone just gone like that.
     
  15. Jul 12, 2018 #5135

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    I'm so sorry.
     
  16. Jul 12, 2018 #5136

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    So sorry Tad, that is so very sad.
     
  17. Jul 15, 2018 #5137

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    Absolutely desperate to move into a new flat, but we're on hold because my friend and soon-to-be housemate's reference is stuck is red tape. Such a drag when all we want is to get this sorted and arrange an actual move in date.
     

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