BigElectricKat
The Big Kat
I've got a question that has been bugging me ever since I joined this community (which hasn't been that long).
What is the most important characteristic when choosing a potential mate/spouse/significant other? Or just someone simply to date or get to know?
BEFORE YOU ANSWER!
I know that it usually takes more than one criteria for a person to be found worthy to spend your time, love, compassion, and intimacy with. But what I'm asking is, what is that one, single thing that, for you gets the ball rolling? What's that one thing that intrigues you enough to want to invest more time in getting to know that person a little more? What is that single thing that you just can't do without? What intrinsic trait do they possess that you just must have in your life?
No need to be politically correct (although most of the folks whose posts I've read aren't concerned with that anyway).
I'd like to thank any who answer in advance. Thanks!!
What is the most important characteristic when choosing a potential mate/spouse/significant other? Or just someone simply to date or get to know?
BEFORE YOU ANSWER!
I know that it usually takes more than one criteria for a person to be found worthy to spend your time, love, compassion, and intimacy with. But what I'm asking is, what is that one, single thing that, for you gets the ball rolling? What's that one thing that intrigues you enough to want to invest more time in getting to know that person a little more? What is that single thing that you just can't do without? What intrinsic trait do they possess that you just must have in your life?
No need to be politically correct (although most of the folks whose posts I've read aren't concerned with that anyway).
I'd like to thank any who answer in advance. Thanks!!
