Im not sure where to put this thread for maximum response, but i will try in here.
im 25, 26 in july, and feeling so so broody at present.
my cutie and i are very very very much in love, adore each other, and have been together nearly 18 months.
we are seriously considering trying for a baby, and are both excited and worried about it.
pros- a baby of ours to love, to join us together, a wee one of us, his family are incredibly supportive and would love to help out, as will my friends, he has a good job, i think im the right age, i know he will be a wonderful dad and me a wonderful mum, our home is big enough...
cons- its expensive to live as it is, we only rent even though our home is lovely but we could never afford to buy a house in belfast at present, my weight might affect the pregnancy, am i too young, will we be able to afford it, will my social life end, will i be a good mum, should i wait until we are married?
the question is, if u kept on waiting and waiting until the time was perfect to have a baby you would NEVER get round to having one...
for the mums, what made u decide to try? was it a happy accident? what problems did u come across? what was easier/harder than u thought?
i know no one can tell me whether we should try or not but im just so confused lol!!
bexy xo
im 25, 26 in july, and feeling so so broody at present.
my cutie and i are very very very much in love, adore each other, and have been together nearly 18 months.
we are seriously considering trying for a baby, and are both excited and worried about it.
pros- a baby of ours to love, to join us together, a wee one of us, his family are incredibly supportive and would love to help out, as will my friends, he has a good job, i think im the right age, i know he will be a wonderful dad and me a wonderful mum, our home is big enough...
cons- its expensive to live as it is, we only rent even though our home is lovely but we could never afford to buy a house in belfast at present, my weight might affect the pregnancy, am i too young, will we be able to afford it, will my social life end, will i be a good mum, should i wait until we are married?
the question is, if u kept on waiting and waiting until the time was perfect to have a baby you would NEVER get round to having one...
for the mums, what made u decide to try? was it a happy accident? what problems did u come across? what was easier/harder than u thought?
i know no one can tell me whether we should try or not but im just so confused lol!!
bexy xo
