Perhaps you're just too too tiny for this place- man up already. You should LOVE it.My goodness, a 100 lb. girl tried sitting on my lap once and it almost brought me to tears. I cannot imagine what a 300 lb.+ woman do to me!! No, it is best that I do the sitting, thank you very much.
This is so true and something that I wanted to say.I've totally lost the girl to a "bastard" (several bastards in fact)
I've DEFINITELY been the "bastard" (more than once)
The phenomenon is simple to me. The heart wants what it wants, and usually it's way less about looks than it is about personality.
Sometimes there's things about the "bastard" that outweigh the "bastardly" traits.
Some fellows look at my career/industry and think that I'm a bit of a "bastard" or "bad guy", but I know for a fact a lot of women respect my hard work and respect driven attitude. While I might look like a bastard to some, the women who desire me desire me for specific reasons.
In turn, it may be that some other guy going for the girl I'm going for may seem like a bastard to me, but those traits that are bastardly to me might not be big deciders for the lady in question.
Just my two cents anyway...
In my experience, pretty much always the case. Seriously sets alarm bells ringing if a person describes themselves as a 'nice guy' and then complains about not getting what they want from people. I wouldn't date a person like that, I only date people who are actually, you know, nice.All too often the "nice guys" making these kind of complaints are just being passive aggressive too.