My name is Bexy and I am a bisexual.
Lol.
And I have been all my life.
I can first recall fancying girls in primary school and having my first "experience" with a girl there. Her name was Jessica and I was at her house. We went into a cupboard and tickled each other in the dark. Heehee!!
In high school I fancied more girls, and kissed one or two.
In 6th form college I dated, flirted, kissed and "had fun" with a handful more girls.
Every girl I ever fancied or went with was in the very least chubby, if not bigger.
Obviously during these periods I dated boys as well, and hell even married one but that was really for crazy reasons that seemed right at the time lol.
So from an early age my preference was clear. I liked fat girls. I liked slender boys. I liked girlie girls, I liked girlie boys! Make up, skirts, long hair, as girlie as you like please!
And now I am with George, the love of my life, and he really is the best of both worlds. My little girlie boy girl. :wubu:
BUT. I have had gay friends since I was about 13. I have been a part of the "gay scene" since I first starting going to nightclubs aged 16. I am now 26 and still find I often have to justify, explain or stick up for my sexuality as a lot of people I have come across, specifically lesbians, seem to think Bisexuality isn't real. It's for people who can't be strong enough to be gay. It's for those "I kissed a girl" types. It's for those who want to kiss a girl to impress a boy. It's for those who are greedy.
I was once even shouted at by a girl I went to college with for marching in the Gay Pride march because I was *shock horror* engaged to a man. And apparently I shouldn't have been there.
I couldn't really find time to explain to her in the middle of a march that I was engaged to a crossdressing guy, who had a female and a male side, and was ideal for me. And nor should I have had to.
I guess what I am rambling on about here is that to me, everyone's sexuality is valid. And everyone's sexuality is real. If you fancy girls but never intend to be with one, you have as much right to that feeling as an out and out lesbian has to never fancy a man.
If you are a male who finds some guys attractive, or has experimented and decided to stick with females, that doesn't make you in the closet or a liar, it makes you you. Sexuality is like an onion, tonnes and tonnes of levels that simply cannot be defined by gay, straight, bi or trans.
For those of you out there that do identify themselves as 100% gay, what are your opinions of bisexual people, in particular women? Do you think it is attention seeking? Do you think it's a valid sexuality? Do you ever resent bisexuals? Do you think they mock your sexuality?
Lets open this up for discussion!!
Bi - Real, fake, or just plain greed?
Lol.
And I have been all my life.
I can first recall fancying girls in primary school and having my first "experience" with a girl there. Her name was Jessica and I was at her house. We went into a cupboard and tickled each other in the dark. Heehee!!
In high school I fancied more girls, and kissed one or two.
In 6th form college I dated, flirted, kissed and "had fun" with a handful more girls.
Every girl I ever fancied or went with was in the very least chubby, if not bigger.
Obviously during these periods I dated boys as well, and hell even married one but that was really for crazy reasons that seemed right at the time lol.
So from an early age my preference was clear. I liked fat girls. I liked slender boys. I liked girlie girls, I liked girlie boys! Make up, skirts, long hair, as girlie as you like please!
And now I am with George, the love of my life, and he really is the best of both worlds. My little girlie boy girl. :wubu:
BUT. I have had gay friends since I was about 13. I have been a part of the "gay scene" since I first starting going to nightclubs aged 16. I am now 26 and still find I often have to justify, explain or stick up for my sexuality as a lot of people I have come across, specifically lesbians, seem to think Bisexuality isn't real. It's for people who can't be strong enough to be gay. It's for those "I kissed a girl" types. It's for those who want to kiss a girl to impress a boy. It's for those who are greedy.
I was once even shouted at by a girl I went to college with for marching in the Gay Pride march because I was *shock horror* engaged to a man. And apparently I shouldn't have been there.
I couldn't really find time to explain to her in the middle of a march that I was engaged to a crossdressing guy, who had a female and a male side, and was ideal for me. And nor should I have had to.
I guess what I am rambling on about here is that to me, everyone's sexuality is valid. And everyone's sexuality is real. If you fancy girls but never intend to be with one, you have as much right to that feeling as an out and out lesbian has to never fancy a man.
If you are a male who finds some guys attractive, or has experimented and decided to stick with females, that doesn't make you in the closet or a liar, it makes you you. Sexuality is like an onion, tonnes and tonnes of levels that simply cannot be defined by gay, straight, bi or trans.
For those of you out there that do identify themselves as 100% gay, what are your opinions of bisexual people, in particular women? Do you think it is attention seeking? Do you think it's a valid sexuality? Do you ever resent bisexuals? Do you think they mock your sexuality?
Lets open this up for discussion!!
Bi - Real, fake, or just plain greed?
