Yeah, yeah, me too."...I feel like an outsider, but I also feel I can be more objective."
Right. But, in that respect, I don't think it necessarily hurts for people to voice concerns, talk about what they like or don't like. In the end, it's all valuable input."...they're feeling their way around here themselves, tweaking the site to more represent their business model.... don't have a horse in the race, they aren't fat activists or in the BBW porn business, or even run fat social events, so this is as new to them as they are to "us"
So far, it looks mostly like a question of formatting: People are basically comfortable with the idea of web-model participation (practically, as a good number of the most active & long-term participants have done some web-modeling). But, by having BOTH an explicit/uncensored PaySite Folder in addition to a regular, existing Paysite Folder and the way how threads/topics are organized by recent updates, this contributes to a general facade which seems to define (circumscribe) & speak-for the remainder of the community in way that's inconsistent with the rest of its values.
Am I even close?
I recognize your handle, but you didn't specify the precise difference between this and your old screen-name. So, how does the Admin even know who you are (just based on this thread)?..have in desperation had to make up this new account to alert someone....still can't work out why I cant log on as Im sure I had my name and password properly but my registered email is inactive now....Anyway, if Im not back with my own name in a couple of days here to post and confirm, could someone pls poke .. someone...Thanks!
Duh...New Admin obviously a huge Bowie fan:"Anyone know who changed the thread title, 'cause it wasn't me..."