I've always been annoyed with men who hit on me, leer at me with lust, objectify, etc. But in my own female way, I've kind of been doing the same thing to fat guys, although most of the time they don't get it. The lusty looks, body checks, flirty smiles... and it's all objectification and purely physical. I imagine what it would be like to fuck them and I get so girl-boner-horny that I can't possibly be a "normal" female. I'm not trying to say that women who are into washboard-ab-douchebags aren't ever horny, but this all-out orgasmo feeling when I see a verrrrry fat and handsome boy is SO compelling. And my non-FFA friends never seem to express those feelings for men except more on a theoretical level, like "I bet he's good in bed," but what does that mean? Who cares what his technique is? If he's a beautiful shade of obese, it's already a done deal. He's going to make me feel like a natural woman no matter what his moves are. Sometimes I think that fat boys are like a drug to me. And a drug I am vigilant to resist because I'm in a committed relationship. Which also feels like a man thing. My girlfriends who have athlete-ish boyfriends/husbands think that even imagining fucking some other dude is a form of cheating, and I'm thinking, "I do that daily, WTF kind of depraved chick am I?" But seriously, is this what it's like to be a guy? Do any other FFAs feel like this? And if so, can we have a fat dude version of Hooters at least, please?