ThatOneGirl
Active Member
I feel kind of weird starting a whole new thread for my personal issues, and I hope this isn't a rambling waste of time, but I have a question that hopefully you lovely folks can answer. I suppose what I'm asking is if it's horribly shallow of me to be significantly less attracted to a guy who's lost weight?
I've spent pretty much all year being 'friends with benefits' (there's not a better way to put it I guess...I hate having boyfriends but I hate that term lol) with a guy who, until a couple weeks ago, I thought was the absolute hottest guy ever. Except for recently, he went on a diet and lost a tooooon of weight, and now I'm realizing how shallow I am. I mean, I still think he's attractive on a lot of levels, but lately I've just felt like a large part of the whole attraction thing is gone. I feel horrible for not liking him as he is/not supporting him or whatever, but I reeeeally liked him chubby! So I don't know what to do...like if I should mention him gaining weight back or just learn to appreciate him skinny? I really hope this made sense, and I'm sorry it was so long!
I've spent pretty much all year being 'friends with benefits' (there's not a better way to put it I guess...I hate having boyfriends but I hate that term lol) with a guy who, until a couple weeks ago, I thought was the absolute hottest guy ever. Except for recently, he went on a diet and lost a tooooon of weight, and now I'm realizing how shallow I am. I mean, I still think he's attractive on a lot of levels, but lately I've just felt like a large part of the whole attraction thing is gone. I feel horrible for not liking him as he is/not supporting him or whatever, but I reeeeally liked him chubby! So I don't know what to do...like if I should mention him gaining weight back or just learn to appreciate him skinny? I really hope this made sense, and I'm sorry it was so long!
