I'm not 30 yet (28), but I get this all the time because most of friends/family members are married and some are starting to have babies, buy their first homes, etc. Since I have no marriage prospects, I feel like my married friends - ESPECIALLY the ones with kids - are starting to treat me like I "don't get it." Like I'm still stuck in middle school, while they are in high school and thus, I cant understand their "grown up" high school issues.... I've not experienced pressure to get married/have kids, but I have felt pity. There's this general sense of oh-no-youre-an-adult-without-a-partner eyebrow cocking that I'm starting to sense. The problem is, I sometimes agree and feel real bad about it. Still processing all of this, happy to have some other folks doing the same.