I get a kick out of damaging chairs without breaking them outright. I like leaving them wobbly, creaking, cracked, bent, so that other people get to wonder just how heavy does someone have to be to do that to a chair. My favorite is to leave stress marks in plastic, but only some chairs are prone to that, even at my size. I also love when a chair makes cracking and creaking noises loud enough that people notice. My BFF is also heavy enough to put some hurt on the furniture, and she's learned to be uncareful on occasion, to please me. I love pool parties with floaties because people always assume I'm way too heavy for them, so when I get on them without even being careful, they gawk and their eyes bulge out of their heads LOL. There's a woman in my social circle who is my size, much larger than my BFF, who sat on an air mattress outside the pool, with another fairly heavy person already on it, and popped it. I want to get together with her and see if she's into doing that kind of thing intentionally. And speaking of pool floaties, I sat with my BFF on one on the grass without popping it, and we invited another woman to join us, and she did. The uncertainty over whether the thing would pop was thrilling. The thing held all three of us for over an hour and I couldn't stop admiring just how hard it was with that much weight on it, and how bloated the exposed portions were. Those poor seams!