Where Are The Men That Love SSBBW's?

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CHUB4SUPERSIZED

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"I wonder where are the men that really love us. The ones that aren't afraid to let their family/coworkers know that they love large women. The ones that actually want to take us out in the daylight hours, and not at midnight when they think everyone is sleeping." (SensualSSBBWCurves)

Quan jo tinc el goig d'acompanyar-me d'un morb, em sento envejat de tothom. M'hi sento realment; no ho dic per dir. També sé que en democracia, que vol dir 'en realitat', un terç de la població és grassonera; un altre terç hi simpatitza (car li és indiferent la fesomia); i tan sols el terç restant són primerers. D'ençà que jo mateix en sóc una, també me'n sento per mi mateix, perquè en som poquíssimes i en un món fet un Delfinat no hi ha cap cultura que et doni la feina feta a poder-te emmorbeir.

When I am lucky to enjoy the company of a *fatman, I feel envied of everybody. I really feel it; I do not say it to say. Besides/Moreover I know that in democracy, which means 'in reality', one-third of the population is *fat-admirer; another third sympathizes (since the *bodyspace is indifferent/irrelevant to them), and only the remaining third are *thin-admirer. Since I myself am a *fatman, I also feel envied, because we are very few and in a *Slimarchy, there is no culture that gives you the work done to be able to fatten yourself until you become a *fatman.

No sé d'on vé ni a què treu cap aquest prejudici sobre fer-se malveure si en festeges amb una. A Catalunya no he conegut cap cas ni mai he sentit malparlar dels grassoners o simpatitzants. Potser en el teu país és diferent. Parlo de la realitat tangible; no pas de la irrealitat de la informació en massa (la indústria de la realitat). Oficialment, mediàticament, els grassoners no existim.

I do not know how there can be someone who swallows this prejudice, that he will be disliked/critised when they see him with a *fatman. In Catalonia I have not heard of any cases, nor have I never heard to speak ill of / rave against / us, the *fat-admirers, or *non-thin-admirers. Maybe in your country it's different. I speak of tangible reality; Not the unreality of the media, great publishers and (virtual-)reality industry. Officially, medially, we *fat-admirers don't exist.

El que jo voldria saber és que on són els morbs que no s'anomenin ni amb superlatius (SSBBW,SSBHM, Supersized) ni amb cacofemismes (corbes, gros, ample, tot altre). On són els morbs que fan anar naturalment el mot 'gras' i família: grassesa/grassor, engreixar, -se'? i que la defensen ferm de l'ús intrusiu que en vulgui fer un aufil no tan prim com l'Esvelt? On sou els morbs que us feu estimar com a tal?

What I wonder is where are the *fatmen, those who call themselves neither with superlatives ('SSBBW, SSBHM, Supersized') nor with *cacophomisms ('curvies, large, big' and so). Where are the fatmen that naturally name / make use of the word 'fat' and derivatives:, fatness, fatten (up) / get fat'? And who defend it resolute and proud by the intrusive loan that a *thinman not as thin as the *Slimbody/Slimone wants to commit for obedience to slim-purity and the distortion of words and meanings that this causes in the language'. Where are you, *fatmen, that make them love you (also) by your fat sex/condition?

Evidentment els meus noms usuaris anglesos en són una contradicció, per concessió, amb el que vinc de dir, mentre no hi hagi una bona higiene de la llengua (anglesa) a fer-la real i paritària.

Obviously my english usernames are a contradiction, by concession, with what I have just said, while there is no good hygiene in the (english) language to make a true and parity language.

[the sign * means 'circumstantial/tried translation of a identify or identity term, o analog case'; 'man' = 'human being', 'fat' = spherical bodyspace, 'thin' = straight bodyspace]



"Submission IS a 'gift' given to one who is worthy of receiving the gift" (SensualSSBBWCurves quote)

Per a mi la submissió no és part de l'estimació. Ningú no és mereix rebre submissió; és talment que el subestimessin. N'hi ha a qui els agrada de jugar a sotmetre's a la voluntat d'altri. Però és un joc; no pas real. O bé és un rol; on l'autoritat del qui fa de submís no és violada, car empuc vulgui pot dir prou. En cap cas no fa per mi.

For me, submission is not part of the friendship. Nobody deserves receiving submission; It's as if you receive underestimation. There are those who like to play to submit to the will of another one. But it is a game; not real. Or it's a role, where your authority/power is not violated; because at any time you can say enough. I'm not into that.

-jordi isant + translators
 

CHUB4SUPERSIZED

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"I know that this is the board where people who particpate in the lifestyle of feeding, or being fed" (SensualSSBBWCurves)
no estic d'acord en això. Ara no tinc temps d'explicar-ho, si ho haig de traduir.
i don't agree on that. Now I do not have time to explain it if I have to translate it.

"that isn't a lifestyle I participate in."
En la literalitat del sentit en què ho sembles significar ('mena de viure'), jo tampoc.
In the literal sense of what you seem to mean ('lifestyle'), I neither.

En un món fet un Delfinat l'estalvi d'energia i la ingesta són les dues úniques medicines que ens permeten emmorbeir-nos i els únics mitjans de tal volta asserenar-nos, si la naturalesa del cos hi ve bé.
In a *Slimarchy, energy savings /sedentarism and ingesta/intake are the only two medicines that allow us to fatten up until become *fatmen and the only two resources that allow, if there is luck and the organisme and metabolism permit it, become *optimal/ideal spherical/round.

[the sign * means 'circumstantial/tried translation of a identify or identity term, o analog case'; 'man' = 'human being', 'fat' = spherical bodyspace, 'thin' = straight bodyspace]
 

CHUB4SUPERSIZED

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En síntesi, la qüestió fóra 'On som els grassoners que volem saber on són els morbs que volen saber on som naltres?'

In short, the question were 'Where are the *fat-admirers who want to know where are the *fatmen who want to know where we *fat-admirers are?'

Dues categories intersecades (el sexe: la generalitat física que és a la base de la salut, com a experiència de ser un cos que en diem, i que per això el significa afectivament, vs. aquest mateix sexe del cos d'altri que desvetlla l'instint eròtic o element comú denominador de l'experiència desiderativa), la dels morbs i els grassoners, que plegades conjuntem, apleguem, la gràssia. Ben bé igual que ho fa tota altra sexualitat: prima, mascla, femella, jove o vella.

Two sexual intersecting/intersected categorie (body sex or common denominator element of the experience of being a body vs. common denominator element of desiderative experience) that together assemble/combine/gather the fat-sexuality. Exactly just like any other one: thin-, male-, female-, young- or old-sexuality.

[the sign * means 'circumstantial/tried translation of a identify or identity term, o analog case'; 'man' = 'human being', 'fat' = spherical bodyspace, 'thin' = straight bodyspace]
 

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I also feel it is necessary to say that although I have (sadly) never dated an SSBBW woman (yet! - unfortunately there are very few in my area), I wouldn't have any "shame" or hesitation at all to be with her in public, to hold hands or to show public affection around other people. I know that is a concern and an issue for some SSBBW women, so I feel it's important to include in addition to my initial post.

For me, I make no apologies for my attraction to SSBBW women whatsoever, because it doesn't require any. I couldn't care less about what others would have to say. I'd just be by her side and make her feel like a queen wherever we went and whatever we did together. Whether it is just being out and about together, going to see a movie, going to the grocery store, to a restaurant, a walk in the park, meeting family, whatever. I'd just make sure she felt loved and cherished no matter where we are. :)
 

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I also feel it is necessary to say that although I have (sadly) never dated an SSBBW woman (yet! - unfortunately there are very few in my area), I wouldn't have any "shame" or hesitation at all to be with her in public, to hold hands or to show public affection around other people. I know that is a concern and an issue for some SSBBW women, so I feel it's important to include in addition to my initial post.

For me, I make no apologies for my attraction to SSBBW women whatsoever, because it doesn't require any. I couldn't care less about what others would have to say. I'd just be by her side and make her feel like a queen wherever we went and whatever we did together. Whether it is just being out and about together, going to see a movie, going to the grocery store, to a restaurant, a walk in the park, meeting family, whatever. I'd just make sure she felt loved and cherished no matter where we are. :)
Love this! :D
 

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I also feel it is necessary to say that although I have (sadly) never dated an SSBBW woman (yet! - unfortunately there are very few in my area), I wouldn't have any "shame" or hesitation at all to be with her in public, to hold hands or to show public affection around other people. I know that is a concern and an issue for some SSBBW women, so I feel it's important to include in addition to my initial post.

For me, I make no apologies for my attraction to SSBBW women whatsoever, because it doesn't require any. I couldn't care less about what others would have to say. I'd just be by her side and make her feel like a queen wherever we went and whatever we did together. Whether it is just being out and about together, going to see a movie, going to the grocery store, to a restaurant, a walk in the park, meeting family, whatever. I'd just make sure she felt loved and cherished no matter where we are. :)
This is exactly the perfect way to put it!
 

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++++ to every word you wrote, and especially this:
I make no apologies for my attraction to SSBBW women whatsoever, because it doesn't require any.
Though brief, and according to her officially Not A Date, i have had the great honor of being out and about with a lovely SSBBW. In an imported furniture store, strolling around a shopping center (sitting and cuddling for awhile as a few people walked by), in a supermarket to pick up some light snacks—all good, all easy, all loving, all public. (We had the whole extra aspect of that light skin/dark skin loving situation going on in addition.)

Of the many, many things in this life and world i do not understand, feeling shame or embarrassment regarding a love interest is high amongst those. If you—friend, family member, stranger—do not understand or approve of the individual i’m with sharing the gift of her wonderfulness, that is your problem, not mine, and certainly not hers! If you writhe witnessing the obvious affection and mutual respect between us, consider turning inside to inquire why. Your tastes and beliefs are yours, but if you cannot accept her or me and hers and mine, i have no time for you.

I have been proud being out and seen with every woman with whom i’ve ever been intimate—no questions, no hesitations, no qualifications. Anywhere and everywhere. I expect with more certainty than nearly any other aspect of life that this shall remain true ever more in the future.
 

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++++ to every word you wrote, and especially this:


Though brief, and according to her officially Not A Date, i have had the great honor of being out and about with a lovely SSBBW. In an imported furniture store, strolling around a shopping center (sitting and cuddling for awhile as a few people walked by), in a supermarket to pick up some light snacks—all good, all easy, all loving, all public. (We had the whole extra aspect of that light skin/dark skin loving situation going on in addition.)

Of the many, many things in this life and world i do not understand, feeling shame or embarrassment regarding a love interest is high amongst those. If you—friend, family member, stranger—do not understand or approve of the individual i’m with sharing the gift of her wonderfulness, that is your problem, not mine, and certainly not hers! If you writhe witnessing the obvious affection and mutual respect between us, consider turning inside to inquire why. Your tastes and beliefs are yours, but if you cannot accept her or me and hers and mine, i have no time for you.

I have been proud being out and seen with every woman with whom i’ve ever been intimate—no questions, no hesitations, no qualifications. Anywhere and everywhere. I expect with more certainty than nearly any other aspect of life that this shall remain true ever more in the future.
Yeah, I hope to do and experience those same things with a special SSBBW woman of my own some day. To share those moments with her and to make her feel loved, cherished and secure while we are out and about is important to me. I am a hopeless romantic and a caring person at heart, so those moments and assuring she feels loved is very important to me as a person.

I completely agree with the rest of your post too. Well said. The other thing I don't like about people's reaction or disagreement about loving an SSBBW woman is, even without saying it, their objection and dissent almost implies that no woman of a certain size deserves love: "Why would you date someone that size?", etc. I don't like it because it is filled with bias and an inability to See and accept people for who they are. EVERYONE deserves love! That is a human right. Regardless of what someone's weight is. Weight has nothing to do with it. I just don't understand people's intolerance and callousness in regards to accepting other people's likes and attractions. It literally has NO bearing on their lives whatsoever, so why should it affect them? It is illogical to me. Anyone who doesn't like it can take a long walk off a short pier. :D My love of big, beautiful SSBBW women is here to stay and there's nothing anyone can do or say that will ever shake me from that. My love and attraction is just too strong.

Thank you for sharing.
 
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I also feel it is necessary to say that although I have (sadly) never dated an SSBBW woman (yet! - unfortunately there are very few in my area), I wouldn't have any "shame" or hesitation at all to be with her in public, to hold hands or to show public affection around other people. I know that is a concern and an issue for some SSBBW women, so I feel it's important to include in addition to my initial post.

For me, I make no apologies for my attraction to SSBBW women whatsoever, because it doesn't require any. I couldn't care less about what others would have to say. I'd just be by her side and make her feel like a queen wherever we went and whatever we did together. Whether it is just being out and about together, going to see a movie, going to the grocery store, to a restaurant, a walk in the park, meeting family, whatever. I'd just make sure she felt loved and cherished no matter where we are. :)
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