(I don't know if this is in the right place, mods, so you might want to move it.)
There are regularly threads about men who are dating a woman and are unfulfilled (or downright unhappy) by her size. I'm kinda confused about this. I know there are millions of fat women in the world who would like a boyfriend, and yet they choose a thin(ner) woman to date, and then are unhappy.
I've been thinking about it and this is what I've come down to:
1. He likes the lifestyle a thin(ner) woman has...the ability to do more things, go more places, have less need for any special accommodations. She fits into his life better, without him even realizing it.
2. He's fallen into the PC kind of SA thinking that he's "attracted to all sizes and shapes".
3. Fat(ter) women are separate...not really a part of his social sphere, and relegated to the internet. He dates the thin(ner) women in his circle, so he doesn't have to break out and be different and maybe laughed at, and leaves the fat(ter) women for his fantasy life.
4. He is turned on by the thought of a thin(ner) woman gaining, and hopes to someday find one of those rare creatures.
5. He likes her personality and thinks it will be enough.
I can't help but be a little...unsympathetic to guys who do this. There are just so many fat women I know personally who are on the market, so to speak, so I don't have much feeling for an FA who gets himself into one of these situations.
Any thoughts? Arguments? Feelings?
There are regularly threads about men who are dating a woman and are unfulfilled (or downright unhappy) by her size. I'm kinda confused about this. I know there are millions of fat women in the world who would like a boyfriend, and yet they choose a thin(ner) woman to date, and then are unhappy.
I've been thinking about it and this is what I've come down to:
1. He likes the lifestyle a thin(ner) woman has...the ability to do more things, go more places, have less need for any special accommodations. She fits into his life better, without him even realizing it.
2. He's fallen into the PC kind of SA thinking that he's "attracted to all sizes and shapes".
3. Fat(ter) women are separate...not really a part of his social sphere, and relegated to the internet. He dates the thin(ner) women in his circle, so he doesn't have to break out and be different and maybe laughed at, and leaves the fat(ter) women for his fantasy life.
4. He is turned on by the thought of a thin(ner) woman gaining, and hopes to someday find one of those rare creatures.
5. He likes her personality and thinks it will be enough.
I can't help but be a little...unsympathetic to guys who do this. There are just so many fat women I know personally who are on the market, so to speak, so I don't have much feeling for an FA who gets himself into one of these situations.
Any thoughts? Arguments? Feelings?
