When you are debating going in to a coffee shop or fast food place that you are walking past, and the tie-breaking factor is whether there is any fat staff working just then.
(And of course then make an effort to be a great customer who makes their day a bit brighter)
I always look. I don't know why I always look. I've heard so many discussions where women say they're "fat," to another woman, and not one of them (not one!) has ever actually been fat. I know I'm in for a disappointment if I look, yet I keep doing it, hoping the claim will finally be an honest one. The fact is, though, this just isn't something that real fat women say about themselves. I just need to learn to stop looking when I hear this.Yes, you definitely know that you're an FA, when someone is described at "fat" and all that you can think is, "That's not fat!"