I've never questioned my fat attraction. It's just part of my wiring, and I think it's always been there. As a child I gravitated towards the biggest people in social settings, although I'm not sure if that was because of a "common bond" or they made me feel secure.
I am aware that big/fat men engender that same feeling of security for me, although I don't wish to question the why of that.
I like all manner of men, and some more than others will trigger my radar, but for me it's more than his size. It's everything else combined that make the whole package.
For me, it's not a fetish, it's a need.
I am aware that big/fat men engender that same feeling of security for me, although I don't wish to question the why of that.
I like all manner of men, and some more than others will trigger my radar, but for me it's more than his size. It's everything else combined that make the whole package.
For me, it's not a fetish, it's a need.