“Break the mold”? Ouch, cringe, ooof. That gives the impression that a majority of FA/FFA and feeders are cold hearted individuals only interested in getting theirs and then moving on to their next unsuspecting victim/conquest.
The users, abusers, and philanderers are in my experience the outliers, NOT THE NORM. There are so many more wonderful, caring FA/FFA and feeders out there who aren’t users and abusers. I believe they’re being done a disservice when someone publicly airs their dirty laundry like this, painting themselves as a victim of predatory behavior. Personal situations are amplified, skewed, and conclusions are made that should not be made. Plus, it makes me feel like I do when I come up on an accident scene and want to look away, but I can't.
I'm not saying this particular FA in question isn't one of those cads. But that's not the point of this thread and I feel perhaps this is a tangent we don't need. In keeping with the original intent of this thread, it would be better to say that for anyone dating, but especially for the SSBBW/USSBBW that this thread is about, do not ignore the red flags and never think, "I'm different than those other women. I can change him."