Where Are The Men That Love SSBBW's?

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  1. Jun 5, 2018 #101

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    Nice thoughs!!! I have my mobility issues too.

    I met a lot of wonderful people online. Some of them are SSBBWs.

    One of them passed away a few days before Christmas. And I have cried a lot since then. Still I feel the sadness. I had a lot of problems with her because she wants to marry me from the first time without knowing me well. I have tried to tell her to know me better. I loved her so much. She was a very wonderful woman but most of the times I feel myself a hopeless romantic.

    I had a lot experience with discrimination. I have a BA in Business Administration with high proficient skills in computer programming. But potencial employers wants to see my body size instead.

    I just wish my life could change before I find my SSBBW princess!!!

    I just wish you the same. Good wishes to you, devinprater!!!
     
  2. Jun 5, 2018 #102

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    It looks like malapropism of a couple of phrases: "game players" and "time wasters". Actually pretty apropos.
     
  3. Jun 19, 2018 #103

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    We do exist!

    Just don't let your guard down, don't make excuses for anyone's odd behavior, when in doubt ask, verify things that don't ring true, and trust your gut.
     
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  4. Mar 30, 2019 #104

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    Yes, we do exist. I have said to my friends and out in public that I prefer bbw or ssbbw. The look on many of their faces were pure disgust but I honestly don't care, I'm proud to be a FA and openly give compliments to women that feel otherwise.
     
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    OMG right here, hand-holding included...I will always melt for a supersize lady with heart, humor, class, compassion and who will let me do things for her - cook, fix stuff around the house, meet her family, what-have-you. That's my idea of heaven.
     
  6. Apr 7, 2019 #106

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    Such a wonderful post! The fix stuff around the house is the cherry on top of a wonderful Sundae.
     
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    I’m right here but I’m taken! :)
     
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    Right here, and I'm looking. But no luck.
     
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  9. Apr 8, 2019 #109

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    Me, me, me!
     
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    I’m going to sit right here in the corner and try to play matchmaker! I just love it when the menfolk come right out and let the world know what they like.
     
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    Ummm... I have PLENTY of stuff around the house that needs fixing! Just saying! lol
     
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    This comment didn't get any replies, but it really interests me.



    All of that's good, but why would you ever want to be treated as if you were average sized? For me, the whole point of being fat is to enjoy it, and that's why it'd be hard for me to get close to someone who couldn't enjoy it too.

    A good portion of what's needed to find love is a willingness to be open to love, even when it's unexpected or not what you've dreamed about. I'd be able to get more precise if you'd given more specifics on the highlighted section and what it means to you, but in a general sense, I think it's a mistake to rush to judgment about a person, based on one or two imperfections. Every partner will be imperfect. That's a fact of life, and if a person is an open FA, they're even less likely to be socially-adept, given their history of being shamed for their feelings. It's important to have realistic expectations, if you really plan to find someone.
     
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    I am right here and I will take the heaviest one; preferably white female women only.
     
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    Does your offer come with unlimited supplies of noodles?
     
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    My building overlooks the railyard.
     
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    Here, in Michigan. Sadly, there's not a lot going on here, in any sense of things. I'm looking at moving at some point.
     
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    When I lived in MI, men wouldn't pay me any attention. Now that I live in the South I get a lot of attention, but it is usually unwanted from men I simply am not interested in. The South loves big women. I think it all comes down to culture and Southern culture includes a lot of great food.
     
  18. Apr 9, 2019 #118

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    I get that. I'm thinking about NM eventually. I love Tex-Mex and Mexican food in general. But yeah, nowhere loves a big woman like the South.
     
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    For the first part you answered your own query..... and a second assumption that being treated in a commonly accepted way does not change how a person feels about being fat. You seem to be putting your feelings and expectations on others

    As to the issues of living as a SSBBW in the real world, I would suggest doing some research. There are a few threads about this exact thing. One titled the realities of dating a SSBBW. I would also hope after you have been in this community for a while you would have picked up on these concrete ideas.
     
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    Just beware of the cost of living in NM. It is very high and the NM economy isn't very good either right now. But it sure is beautiful in the SW.
     
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