"Fat Father Syndrome"

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  1. Sep 3, 2013 #1

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    Nope. Nope nope nope nope nope.
     
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    he's correct in as much as that we generally tend to get fatter. And fatter.

    I mean, I think, as you get older, you'd actually at some point have to make a conscious decision just in order to stop getting fatter & fatter.

    As far as ladies, from what I've seen in my own personal experience, I was at minimum markedly both bigger & fatter than all of the dads-of I've had the chance to formally meet. So, typically, I'd like to think that they'd reminded her of me?
     
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    I am definitely not trying to fuck my Dad. Hot dads, however, are totally game.
     
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    Nope! My dad wasn't skinny but neither was he big. An average sized, moderately athletic man. How typical!
     
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    Well, it's not that. It's the idea that for a lot of people, their father is the first model for their idea of men/masculinity and, in the case of women, on a subconscious level, compare the men in their lives to him as a standard.
     
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    I've heard this theory before and it's bunk, at least for me. My dad is extremely athletic. (Also an asshole, so I don't want anyone like him.)

    Though there was a brief period in my childhood where he developed a pot belly and me and my brother used to slap it and say we were playing "the belly drums." I doubt that has anything to do with my attractions...at least I hope? Bleh, I'm gonna stop thinking about this now. :blink:

    (As a side note, my brother is also an FA, and my uncle goes to BBW events and stuff, so I'm pretty positive it's somewhat genetic.)
     
  8. Sep 3, 2013 #8

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    Please don't ever slap my stomach and run away giggling "BELLY DRUMS!!!"
     
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    Well...

    ...I can admit that I seem to end up dating men who are kind of similar to my father, personality-wise. I certainly don't do this on purpose, it just kind of happens. However none of them have been similar to my father in terms of appearance.
     
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    My Dad's a fat guy, more so as he's gotten older, but he's always had a big belly since I can remember. He's still one of the nicest looking men I know, so there's that too I guess. And he's blue collar.

    Those are normally factors I search out as well. Who knows, eh?
     
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    I've had someone send me this video before, after asking a few times what my Dad looks like.

    My dad's always been in good shape/athletic. In fact, he's actually pretty derogatory towards fat people ...which of course works out splendidly for me.

    As for personality...I'm actually pretty similar to my dad, and I don't think I tend towards guys who are really like him. Time to over-analyze this in my head instead of actually doing something productive!
     
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    Every time I don't feel like articulating a complete response to something, you almost always come along and scare the crap out of me by posting my exact thoughts in almost precisely the same words I would've chosen. It's as unsettling as it is convenient, yay!
     
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    I don't think I look for men because my dad was fat, I look for men who have his traits. My dad taught me lots of stuff, having worked in the corporate world it's hard to find a man that does the things he did/taught me. I was lucky to learn carpentry, auto-mechanical work, welding, masonry, and general Mexican-ness. I don't care if the guy is fat or not, but he better be handy as fuck.
     
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    Kiss her!!![/drunk asshole across the street]
     
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    He did a great job, you're the best Mexican I know! :bow:


     
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    Every time I don't feel like articulating a complete response to something, you almost always come along and scare the crap out of me by posting my exact thoughts in almost precisely the same words I would've chosen. It's as unsettling as it is convenient, yay!
     
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    I'm claiming the combination of unsettling and convenient, and will use it whenever asked to describe myself. That being said...I'm not sure I can take the pressure of reading your mind every time I go to post. I can only disappoint from here D:

    Kiss him!!![/entirely sober, but a total perv]
     
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    Kiss me!!! [/entirely sober and not wearing pants, but is wearing socks.]
     
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    That's different, women aren't turned on by guys getting it on!


    Wait, that's true for all women, right?

    Archetypus, don't stray far - just in case...
     
  20. Sep 5, 2013 #20

    tankyguy

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    ORLY?

    http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/YaoiFangirl


    Though, there may be very little of it that appeals to FFAs.
    Large guys are scarce in anime/manga. Those that exist are usually ugly, depraved, evil or some combination thereof.
     
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