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Tad

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Well, see, the particular reason for raise a little hell is that, although it was essentially a vacuous arena rocker of a song, I think it does raise a pretty good point

In the end it comes down to your thinking
And there's really nobody to blame
When it feels like your ship is sinking
And you're too tired to play the game

Nobody's going to help you
You've just got to stand up alone
And dig in your heels
And see how it feels
To raise a little Hell of your own

A random hearing of this song has gotten me to change my approach to things more than once in life.
 

dblbellybhm

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When I was young I was fixated on the numbers: 400 - 500 lbs. Now it's really not about the numbers but about proportion. I like them smart, funny, confident and fat from head to toe.
 

Mr. Jigglesworth

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When I was young I was fixated on the numbers: 400 - 500 lbs. Now it's really not about the numbers but about proportion. I like them smart, funny, confident and fat from head to toe.
I like your response it's very honest. I notice I am getting to feel that way too, but 20yrs. ago it seemed that the older I got the fatter I wanted them to be. Fortunately I have a fiancee' that I've introduced to the Size-Acceptence Community, and its just surprising how much alike we are discovering as we open up to one another.


Mr. Jigglesworth
 

cinnamonkiss

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I am very attracted to a man that weighs 200 plus and gradually grows along with me. I am very happy about your response concerning your fiance, is she bbw also mr.jigglesworth?. I have found not many women want or should I say never accepts herself none the less her husband with his fantasies or obsessions. My boyfriend broke up with me because I didnt want to lose weight I am happy with me:eat1:

Cinnamonkiss
 

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Talking in broad physical attraction terms, as I think that's what the OP was asking... I've known I was an FA since I was about 13, but back then there really wasn't many very fat girls in my town so I was usually attracted to girls around 200lbs. Since I've been active on various FA/BBW/SSBBW boards and the internet has broadened my horizon I've found my attraction going from 200 to 400-600lbs.

Really, when it comes to attraction it's the face that makes it for me and then physical proportions. Obviously personality is what changes physical attraction to a relationship, but being very honest - I really don't think I could be in a relationship witha person I wasn't physically attracted to. I've dated thin girls before with the best intentions, but the physical side of those relationships never lasted.
 

cinnamonkiss

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I like your response it's very honest. I notice I am getting to feel that way too, but 20yrs. ago it seemed that the older I got the fatter I wanted them to be. Fortunately I have a fiancee' that I've introduced to the Size-Acceptence Community, and its just surprising how much alike we are discovering as we open up to one another.


Mr. Jigglesworth
Is she a BBW?
 

kh818

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My boyfriend is around 230, but I think he would look great at any weight (aw shucks). But I am very curious what 300 would look like on him...
Softness all over looks GREAT!:smitten:
 

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I prefer my men to be of average height ssbhm from about 400lbs up to 600!
 

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ssbbwfa33 you have good taste! I'm the same way only with a ssbhm.
 

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Very roughly around 90 kg to about 160 kg, but I am pretty flexible when it comes to individual women.
 

RabbitScorpion

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At the height of about 5'6" - from 80 kg to double that, that is, 160 kg or so.
Interesting (if confusing) mix of imperial and metric.

At 5'6": from 176 lbs. to 353 lbs. or so (12st 8lbs to 25st 2lbs or so)

At 178cm, from 80 kg to 160 kg or so

BMI 45-90 (that is, myownway's ideal, not mine)
 

Never2fat4me

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Interesting (if confusing) mix of imperial and metric.

At 5'6": from 176 lbs. to 353 lbs. or so (12st 8lbs to 25st 2lbs or so)

At 178cm, from 80 kg to 160 kg or so

BMI 45-90 (that is, myownway's ideal, not mine)
Technically, 5'6" is 168 cm (not 178).
 

RabbitScorpion

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Technically, 5'6" is 168 cm (not 178).
You are absolutely correct, can't understand how that happened, as I was using a calculator.

Thank you for pointing this out, sorry to those I misinformed.:doh:

OH MY GOD! Just discovered my BMI figures are also way off, in the other direction!

Correct BMI for "myownway" would be 28-56 (which oddly, is about the same as I would prefer, 30-45)

I used to be a math wiz. I seem to have lost it. I don't know if that is because I'm getting really old, or those Confed miniballs I took in the noggin at Gettysburg :)
 

AmyJo1976

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I like a bigger man. I'm not much of a numbers person when it comes to that but for reference, 6ft, at least 350lbs. That's a fairly recent change for the bigger:D I used to go for a more muscular guy, but lately (in the last year or so) I find myself being attracted to fatter men that like to eat rather than pump iron, hehe.
 

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Interesting (if confusing) mix of imperial and metric.
Oops! Sorry for the mixup, I'm from Central Europe and spend a lot of time on English-speaking boards and got used to thinking in both metric and imperial, so sometimes I guess I can get a little confused and produce similarly confusing messages :).

And thanks for converting it all the way round :).
 
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