- Dec 17, 2010
- Brisbane, Australia
Eh, it can be, but it's not for everyone. I don't see virginity as a gift or anything special. It's a state of not having and everyone starts out with it. I was going to wait for Mr Right, but then decided not to wait around for someone that may or may not turn up, and had a drunken night with a friend of a friend when I was 21. I don't regret it. It didn't make a big difference in my life. I'd had sex...life went on. Would it have been better with someone I was in love with? Probably. But I wanted to have sex so I did.I've learned that virginity is something that needs to be approached with the utmost patience. I lost/gave mine away when I was nearly twenty, but it was after waiting for years for someone who I knew I loved, and who wouldn't take advantage of it- as much as I hate putting virginity on a pedestal- it's an important, delicate thing...
Don't worry about losing it! It will happen when it's supposed to happen! Just like your first rent check, loan, car, pet- it's just another part of life!