LOL. Well, I'm 32, and still the dreaded V, I always said I will wait till after marriage, and unfortunately, I still haven't found the one to worry. I think for me the hardest years being a V was like between 26 and 30, because at that age you're like thinking "OMG, I am getting old and I still haven't been laid", but then I think there comes a point when you just get used to it.i think half the active posters here at virgins, dude. or so it seems!
I had a friend who was in a similar situation. It was last year on a semester overseas in Italy. Seems that he tried "hooking up" with one of his classmates while he was there. His advances drew many question marks from people, because of the odd behavior. My friend apparently let negative voices around him get to his head. People where clamoring that he was gay, and questioning what is wrong with him. At the end he resigned on his advances, and just went to a brothel and lost his virginity to a prostitute to just get it over with.when I was 13 I lied about loosing my virginity because I was scared that I was going to be the last one in my year to have sex, it's like a damn self-fulfilling prophecy
that was ten years ago, I guess at the moment I want it too bad, I keep getting nervous in steamy situations and I can't perform; I keep thinking the situation is going to end with people laughing at me because I'm a virgin or just a terrible shag, it's really hard to be on your game when your heads full of anxiety
I finally told all my mates about it, alot didn't believe me or thought I was joking, some immediately tried to find hookers but I called them off, it's nice to know how far your mates will go for you though; even my father offered to find a high class prostitute but I wouldn't go that far, I mean part of me thinks I should just to get it out the way dispel some of the nerves and move on but I guess it's been so long I want something special but at the same time I'm pretty sure I'm going to be a crap lay my first time
Happened to me too.Reporting again -_- I have come the conclusion that with my age telling a guy I am still a virgin it scares them off. It was proven to me this year.-_-