Discussion in 'BHM/FFA' started by BLUEeyedBanshee, May 3, 2008.
And carlasixx. She rocks my socks off.
Do I count if I've visited Canada? LOL
I'll grant you "honourary Canadian" status if you come to my apartment for a sexy pillow fight.
Honourary status will also cost two hundred dollars, cash.
Well..actually.....I may be coming to Canada at some point...it just so happens.
<so IN for a sexi pillow fight>
(Put the $200 <Canadian, I'm sure> on my tab, please)
Oh thank Jebus.....I'm so broke...I mean, uh...your request is being processed. 5-10 business days.
So..what..that's like $500 American, right?
<jk--I know the exchange rate is pretty even now>
ETA: Toronto now has a fat mayor, though. I VOTED FOR HIM.
Fucking character limit.
I heard all about it. I heard the screaming from 500 miles away.
To me it means a place where I can express myself around folks who are like me and I don't feel so self-conscious.
New to this site, but in the last 2-3 days of reading, I've come up with the following.
This site has given me (at least temporarily) a new outlook on life. At 31, I found myself at a bit of a crossroads:
Road 1: Live as a big guy and continue to hide from women figuring that I'll just be alone and keep convincing myself that I don't really need a woman (because honestly, I'm fairly happy as is).
Road 2: Settle. Look for women that I'm otherwise not necessarily attracted to (or who is generally unattracted to me, but also is looking to 'settle') in order to say I've found someone, even though neither people are in it for the truth.
Road 3: Work my ass off at the gym, try to pretend I'm someone I'm not, only to find someone who only appreciates me for what I would be at the time, and not for the guy I am.
Road 4: The new road. Realize that I am who I am, and that there CAN be people out there who will really like me for who I am, and might actually ENJOY it. Not just chicks who can't get other guys, but ones who would be happy to be with me.
At least for the temporary, it's improved my overall quality of life. I am already feeling a little less depressed about things and have started to make changes to find the right kind of person for me. Let's just see if it works..
Road 5: Hookers
As much as one would tend to agree with you...hookers are just way too expensive.
Road 5: Dead hookers?
I think you're on to something!
Now if only we had a plan......
When I first found the site, I felt the same about a new outlook. Someone at work told me a had a "pep" in my step, and then someone else at work told me the same thing. On my way home, a neighbor in my apartment complex told me it looked like I was walking with the BeeGee's "stayin' alive" playing in my head because I had a pep in my step. So I know how you feel.
Dims has become a huge part of my life. I know that might sound sad, to be so attached to an internet forum, but it's become really important to me.
When I joined Dims I really had no idea what to expect. To be honest, part of me thought anybody that liked how I look was wierd and I wasnt sure how I'd react to something so new. I think I came in with the intention of just speaking to people who knew what I was going through but it's become so much more.
I can't really put into words how much Dims has changed my life. Whether it's the new confidence I've got from knowing there are people out there who like me and think I'm sexy, or the great friends and truly amazing people I've met, or just a place where I can talk about anything that's worrying me....this place means so much.
You must know some fucked up pimps
its 7am and i am imagining you with beegees soundtrack playing and you and your colorful sox and personality with a *PEP* in your step.....TFF
i totally caught that too! but then my imagination has him walking past chaz, who tips his hat to hozay and continues on, bundle of dead hookers under his arm
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